The word ‘IGBA-NKWU-NWANYI’: to drink a woman’s palm wine…

The word ‘IGBA-NKWU-NWANYI’: to drink a woman’s palm wine…she brings the palm wine to the ceremonial ground, the father gives it to her to START searching for her husband, many times during this occasion; she spends very long time in SEARCHING for this husband, and later she finds the husband, kneels and crawlIGBA-NKWU COMPLETEs to him, and then offers him the drink, after which the man drops a token in the cup…I mean, a token, not even a specified amount, but mostly #20: it serves as a sign of appreciation for having taking all those time in searching for him and even preparing for the occasion which she brought the drink, meaning that it wasn’t the man’s responsibility…

Also, the mother of this woman does what is called ‘IBI ULO or IDU ULO’…In this, the mother begins to prepare/prepares the major thing her daughter would need while she goes to the husbands house…it is recorded also that in the olden days, whenever a woman finds a man to marry; it seems worrying to their family because the mother got to begin spending/preparing ALL that she would need…

ARE ALL THESE STILL SO, ARE THEY NOT OPPOSITE NOW?

How come these norms were REVERSED? DO YOU REALLY THINK THAT THE MOST-HIGH DIDN’T KNOW WHY HE PREPARED THINGS THE WAY THEY WERE? YOU THINK OUR THOUGHTS CAN DO US BETTER? YOU CALL IT MODERNIZATION OR CIVILIZATION?

HE SET THINGS TO BE THE WAY THEY WERE, AND THEN WE BEGAN CHANGING THEM AND CALLED IT ‘CIVILIZATION’ (by men from the cave)…well, you can see how the world is today with our ‘CIVILIZATION’.
The opposite has become the norm.
The reason for the above image is to DRAW YOUR SENSES BACK TO what you do/practice daily, monthly, and yearly; in the name of ‘TRADITIONAL WEDDING’, YET DON’T READ MEANING INTO THEM…

Men were endowed with strength and honor, they go IN-SEARCH of daily bread…in the days of wars and warriors; the strength of men were displayed as a game. air max pas cher sac a dos fjallraven kanken femme adidas uk Women often go for these men who are strong, but before these; on the side of women; they dress modestly, spend most times in cooking and taking care of the home…In those days; women makes effort to be VERY RESPECTFUL and APPEAR DECENT- this was what tripped men then- NOT SEX OR SEDUCTIVE DRESSES as today…Men often send spies and receives report of women they wish to have, while women makes all effort to please the men by being very respectful and submissive in the village/community they live…women knew that their report could be gotten from around, so they endeavour to live in a right manner- THIS WAS A NORMAL LIFESTYLE: TO BE RESPECTFUL, SUBMISSIVE AND HOMELY.

Also, in the early years, giving birth to women were seen as burden, one of the reasons were because of the rites her parents ought to perform when she’s to go into a man’s house…it wasn’t so a joyful thing to give birth to a female child, MALE CHILDREN WERE SEEN AS HIGHER GIFT, but now; because of the ECONOMIC GAIN, seductions which has covered the eyes of our men as a result of half-naked cloths everywhere, AND THE PRACTICE OF LAWLESSNESS; men today, fulfils those rites…
Nature made it that a woman’s protection will be from a man, AND SO SHE SEEKS A MAN TO HIDE UNDER…it is like BUYING/PAYING FOR WHAT YOU NEED…Having realized/had the nature feeling that she needs protection; she seeks protection and provision of a man…Also in times of wars; women often seek protection under a man…

In the early days, men are rare to be born unlike women; this is one of the reasons FIVE, SIX OR SEVEN WOMEN WILL BE MARRIED UNDER ONE MAN (for protection and provision), at these services from the men; women often seek them since creation- for PROTECTION AND PROVISION…I could tell you that the reason you see women flaunt their body all around is to ATTRACT MEN because the RESPECT, DECENCY, HOMELINESS AND CARE has been THROWN AWAY; and the only thing LEFT TO OFFER FOR ATTRACTION is the body- WHICH USE TO BE THE LAST…
Come to think of it IN THIS CURRENT ERA, a man goes out to hustle for money, many die in the process, some become haggard…he spends years seeking for survival, and IF HE SUCCEEDS FINANCIALLY; he will be told that “HE IS QUALIFIED/AGED TO MARRY”, but if he couldn’t, he will be left with words of regret and be told that ‘HE’S NOT QUALIFIED TO MARRY. nike air max pas cher Chaussure Asics Gel Noosa Tri 11 Fjallraven Kanken Sale NO.2 Infact; there will be no woman who will give him attention- AS THOUGH THAT WOMAN HAS SUCCEDED FINANCIALLY…This woman who refuses giving the man attention walks from street to street SEEKING FOR A ‘READY-MADE’ MAN who SHE WOULDN’T WANT TO APPROACH as earlier done, rather would flaunt her nakedness around her TARGET-MAN, and many times; as one without honor- she’s ready to offer that body AFTER HAVING SEDUCED THE MAN ‘ON TARGET’; SHE SUCCEEDS…

She doesn’t go out to hustle, she is with one friend or the other chatting, flirting from one man to the other (because dignity is gone); YET; SHE STANDS TO WAIT FOR THE HUSTLING MAN (who went out hustling, who is to carter and feed her, and who is to protect and provide for her) TO KNEEL BEFORE HER AND PLEAD HER FOR MARRIAGE, so she could come AND DO WHAT, GIVE SEX? And You Really Think It Was Prepared To Be So? ARU!

It is also for this LOSS OF DIGNITY that led them into IDLENESS- since there is no other role to play, thus; the time to MAKE-UP the body for attraction, seduction and prostitution (so that the man can be forced to come to her). mochilas kanken baratas fjallraven kanken goedkoop Nike Scarpe Italia THEY DECIDED TO keep themselves busy, and that is why they wander from one non-sense called fashion to the other…they now devote time for fantasies…do face surgery, breast surgery, waist-lift and buttocks surgery, laps and all parts of the body- ALL TO SEE TO KEEP MEN ATTRACTED, because APART FROM those things; THEY ARE OF NO RELEVANCE, yet THEY WERE! The girls/ladies and women I see in this generation are ones who spend the whole time to see that her nails are changed weekly, buys the most costliest ‘MAKE-UP and cream, scraps off her natural eye-lashes AND ATTACHES AN ARTIFICIAL ONE…She goes further to risk her eye-ball by changing it to look like a cats’, and then she trains herself (CONSCIOUSLY) on how to walk like an animal called CAT. Nike Sko Nettbutikk Fjallraven Kanken Big UK Goedkoop Nike Schoenen Most of them go further to PAD-UP their buttocks, some break their teeth to have ‘OPEN-TEETH’, and so many non-sense, and at the end of the day, THIS HARLOT expects the man under the heat of the sun or one cracking brain on how to be successful or a leader TO KNEEL BEFORE HER OR ASK HER TO “PLEASE, ACCEPT ME”- I guess men have as well gone mad and crazy…to accept you as a NEWLY ADMITTED ASSISTANT HARLOT OR accept you as a NEW FOOL CONVERT? though I know it’s all as a result of commercialized HALF-NAKED CLOTHES worn all around, not that they are ok in brain and goes for them (harlots), and after ALL THESE; I HEARED THEY ARE CHRISTIANS…

This has remained her key to trapping men- INSTEAD OF ATTRACTION BY RESPECT, DIGNITY, HOMELINESS AND EVEN BEAUTY…Men weren’t the ones who go in search of women, WOMEN DO. Fjallraven Kanken Sale Kids Fjallraven Kanken Big Air Max Baratas Some of us could start recalling some nations who still maintain this culture and one of them is a popular nation known as ‘INDIA and this was why I told us last time that our real origin is from the land KNOWN TODAY AS ASIA (and part of America and Europe), Israel is like an outsketch: A STOLEN PART OF THE LAND, yet presented to be the ONLY/WHOLE LAND OF THE REAL CHILDREN OF THE MOST-HIGH i.e 1/100.
If you are an elder in Igbo land AND THINKS THIS WRITE-UP IS FALSE; attend another TRADITIONAL WEDDING (IGBA-NKWU) and STUDY ALL THAT YOU PRACTICE IN THE PROCESS, from beginning to end AND TELL ME WHO PROPOSED- THE MAN OR THE WOMAN…

We are far lost, I mean LOST! Far away from our land, culture, home, Creator, and TRUTH itself, just far from everything genuine…Our elders would have been the ones RE-DIRECTING US, but so unfortunate that most of them don’t even care or still remember DIGNITY AND RESPECT, they are soon wiling away, I mean WHILING OFF all our inheritance, our culture, etc
THE TRUTH IS OUR POWER, if we don’t make amends of ALL THESE RUBBISH, I’m afraid that THERE IS/WOULD NOT BE ANY NEGOTIATION, because the Most-High is keen this time, HE PLACED SO! I mean, NO AMENDMENT, NO HELP! NO REPENTANCE, NO ATTENTION! And so we will wallow in the hands of our ‘SO-CALLED’ enemies.